11 May 2012

It's a Paradox..

So after that last amazing post I just did I have realised that I am getting totally off track to what I originally wanted to do with this blog. I really can't say exactly what it was/is that I wanted to do as I have kind of lost myself in getting caught up in the FB drama. And the Psychologist has made me realise that I don't want to be like her. While I can't really remember the original reasoning's, I do know the new one is not to be a hypocrite and get caught up in the Facebook bullshit. And I will fully admit I have done just that. People write about how shit they think it all is. That they don't even care, when clearly they do. They bitch about the people bitching saying how pathetic it is. Yes I see the hypocrisy here. I am guessing they don't. Because they keep on going.
Mostly I find it amusing. Some people I find pathetic. Others not. Either way. I don't want to blog about it. I started this blog before the others and I don't want it to be the same. It has nothing to do with not being able to handle the competition. Because quite frankly there is no competition. Pissing people off with your first posts is not the best way to get a fan base. The only reason people are going to keep going back to that blog is because it is like a train wreck. They'll look because they just wont be able to help themselves but then carry on about how horrible it is. It's just another sheep joining the flock. Couldn't think up something original to blog about so decided to just do their own version of what has already been happening for the past 6 months. They do say intimation is the highest form of flattery though. She can keep the bitchfest. Hey! Maybe my blog will turn into pointing out her hypocrisies. (it wont really, that was just sarcasm)
I am wondering why she didn't blog about herself with the post about what people do to piss people off...she definitely cornered that market today! Anyway just wanted to clear that up while I still can.

I just have one more thing to say about something though. The Cage Group. GASP! Yes I named it! no hiding behind pseudonyms here! Just anonymity :P
Hopefully those that hate the Cage aren't going to hate me for this following post but just understand that we are all entitled to our own opinions. I have been in this group almost from the start and no I don't regularly post in there so it is not a biased opinion either. Just one based on facts of what I have personally witnessed. So don't hate me for it. Or do. I don't care, really. It'll just prove your shallowness if you do ;)
anyway The Cage....seriously, yes at the start I was as mortified as the next person at some of the crap that was being posted in there. I almost left a couple of time because I thought "holy shit these chicks are fucking CRAZY!!" "They can not seriously be like this in real life" o_O <--- yep you guessed it wide eyed and shocked. BUT curiosity got the better of me and I hung out a while longer and I am glad I did! I do still wonder occasionally what drugs some of them might be on, or wonder why certain people have felt the need to post certain aspects of their lives for so many strangers to know about, but what I have come to realise is they do it because they feel comfortable doing it. I myself never would post as much details as what I have seen recently but hey each to their own. They consider each other friends and TRUST each other. They can have a joke. They can disagree, and be ok with it. And the power behind that closeness, even if it is a cyber one, and the friendship with each other has been evident on more than one occasion in the past week. Once when a troll came in and tried to stir up trouble they ALL stood up to her. In any other group only a select few if any would be game enough to speak out against a post of such nature.
One thing I did witness the other day was absolute proof that these women are NOT crazed lunatics that threaten other peoples lives or whatever else it is they are accused of.
One member, who I don't recall seeing before had posted about a personal situation and I have never seen so much compassion and support in ANY other FB group. Not even ones that profess their sole purpose to be support. So many women that don't even know each other in real life sharing beautiful, thoughtful words for one AMAZING mum in a situation no parent should ever have to go through. No one wanted to share that aspect of the group in their bad mouthing did they. This is why I am now. This group is just a group of chicks hanging out having fun. making friends and supporting each other. Even if they don't call it a support page. If you spend enough time in there you'll see it really is :P
As for the language. HAHA those that are getting all twisted up inside about it. Seriously just stop. There is no need for it. If you really do find it that disgraceful then don't read it. Don't put yourself in the situation to be exposed to it. Pretty simple really.
The only reason I can see anymore for anyone getting all riled up about what they say and do is jealously. Jealous that you don't have the closeness that this bunch clearly has. There is an obvious solution to your troubles. Go find a hobby. Get as involved in your own lives as you seem to clearly want to be in others. It's just really sad to keep seeing people complain about other people. If you hate them so much why on earth do you waste so much of your own time and energy on them.
Time to let it go now. Lets all do it together. ok? ok.
YAY! doesn't that feel so much better!?!

So this is it. My final rant surrounding the same old FB drama. I'm not saying I am never going to post about FB lol just a little disclaimer there. I am just not going to keep going around in circles with posts about specific groups and personalities. Hopefully I still find interesting things to blog about! haha!

Make sure you spend some time out side tomorrow and get some fresh air...Its good for you apparently!

Maddy :o

^^ LOL clearly I am not really Maddy....just wanted to stir her up a little :P


Anonymous said...

You didn't come up with the name cage fight Tina Lee...

RAW said...

hahaha Thanks for the feedback but sorry to disappoint my name is not Tina Lee :)
Do you know what a pseudonym is? I am guessing not due to the fact that if you did you would realise what I actually meant when I said I 'named' it...Let me explain it to you and anyone else that seems to be a few cans short of a 6 pack.

It was in reference to saying the actual name of the group in the blog post as opposed to using a pseudonym ie. fake name. Like it exactly explains directly after it.

Though I thank you for proving an earlier point I made about people reading things and only taking what they want from the words instead of actually reading it for what it is. Then making comments that actually make you look stupid. Well Done. And thanks for making an example of yourself. Lucky you did it anonymously! ;)

Anonymous said...

Im in the cage group and I don't see a lot of support in it

Tina Lee said...

Hey Douche bag, Its maddys Group not mine - she named it not me grow a brain - does it say anywhere on there that I came up with the name or that I am an admin NO I AM NOT.

Good to see you hiding behind the Anonymous tag too. Adult Much???

And to anonymous 2 - OPEN YOUR EYES !!!

Anonymous said...

Freedom of Speech. That’s in the American Constitution, not ours. There have been a number of recent stories in newspapers about people being punished or fired from their workplace becauseof Facebook posts and even to the point on even just ‘liking’ the wrong page which cast a negative light of themselves. Australia does not have explicit freedom of speech in any constitutional or statutory declaration of rights, with the exception of political speech which is protected from criminal prosecution at common law per Australian Capital Television Pty Ltd v Commonwealth. The Howard Government reintroduced Sedition Law as well. Section 24B defined seditious words as words expressive of a seditious intention, and Section 24D(1) specified that any person who, with the intention of causing violence or creating public disorder or a public disturbance, writes, prints, utters or publishes any seditious words shall be guilty of an indictable offence punishable by imprisonment for 3 years.

manda said...

Hahaha no support in the cage? Geez u need to pull your head out of your ass. Or maybe your one of the f*cktards who troll for other 'support groups' Just saying.

RAW said...

Anonymous 2 - you must be in a different type of cage.

Anonymous 3 - Thanks for that little law lesson. Are you sure you are commenting on the write blog? your comments are totally irrelevant to anything here...no one has mentioned freedom of speech. But again, thanks anyway.

RAW said...

WOW look at my grammar skills! haha obviously I meant right not write ;)

Anonymous said...

Really? You seem to think you a free to say anything you like. Perhaps you need a lesson in civil defamation litigation and Criminal Defamation. 'someone else wrote it somewhere else first' isn't an admissible defense either. In 2006 when defamation law changed to combine Libel and Slander into one offense many things changed. For everyone involved in online groups and online blogs. In fact Australia was one of the first countries to criminally punish someone for published statements online. I would say it concerns you as a blogger very much. You are naive to think it doesn't.

Anonymous said...

Tina Lee and Manda Perhaps you should grow up name calling is for children and uneducated people! Pathetic really!

Anonymous said...

Common language from common people